It seems like just yesterday I was fantasizing about turning one of Joe the Intern’s photos into a piece of wall art. Well my friends, dreams really do come true. Almost a year later, the folks over at BestCanvas.ca approached me about turning one of favorite photos into a canvas print. I knew exactly which one I would choose.
The process was ridiculously simple. After consulting the minimum resolution requirements, I chose a large 40’’x30’’ portrait shaped canvas for Joe’s mug and uploaded my photo (the system lets you play around with different formats to see which works best). It was exactly what I had in mind, so I ordered it.
That’s the beauty of BestCanvas.ca — you can literally take any high resolution photo — a favorite vacation shot, a photo of your pet or even a stock image that you really love and turn it into gorgeous, personalized art. Goodbye, generic home decor. Hello, conversation starting DIY statement piece.
About two weeks later, my print arrived on my doorstep and I ripped open the packaging like a kid on Christmas morning totally normal thirty-something anxiously awaiting a large scale print of their favorite man doll.
You guys, I’m smitten. I had no idea what to expect, so I was totally floored when I saw how vivid the colors are. It’s so bright and happy and perfect.
I love how large, bold art can add an instant pop to an otherwise blank space. When I move, I envision hanging this piece in my breakfast/eating area because I like the idea of looking up from my smoothie every morning and remembering that sunny day wandering around Beverly Hills. However, since I’m currently without said wall space/breakfast nook, I’ve had fun experimenting with the print in various areas of my current home. Behold the proof that a life-size print of a half-naked G.I Joe is surprisingly versatile!
If I’m feeling lazy or don’t have a lot of wall space to hang art, I’m fond of leaning it against walls. I love how my Joe print looks propped up on my dresser.
Although I still think a large landscape oriented (lengthwise) print would better suit the space above my bed, Joe the Intern insisted I try it in the bedroom anyways — you know, because nothing sets potential lovers at ease like a large scale photo of a plastic man with rock hard nipples the size of quarters.
It doesn’t look terrible, but I think that I’ll stick to hanging this piece in less intimate areas. Sorry, Joe.
All in all, I really enjoyed my Bestcanvas.ca experience. The only thing I wish I’d known beforehand is that these prints are very high resolution (a good thing!) I wish I’d done a better job photo-shopping Joe before I uploaded the image because the small blemishes (ie. marks on Joe’s face) that were visible on the original showed up on the print. Just something to consider for next time.
Joe on the other hand, has no complaints.
So, there you have it. Art dreams turned real. What photo would you like to turn into a print?
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Temptation Cancun Resort is a topless-optional, all-inclusive, adults-only resort in Cancun, known for its vibrant party scene, sexy design, and judgment-free atmosphere.
Are you curious about visiting a clothing-optional resort but unsure what to expect? As someone who has stayed at Temptation Cancun Resort five times and even embarked on the Temptation Caribbean Cruise, I can confidently say this adults-only, topless-optional resort is a must-visit for anyone looking to unwind, meet like-minded people, and embrace a carefree, body-positive atmosphere.
If you’re considering booking a stay at Temptation Cancun Resort, here’s everything you need to know before you book!
What is Temptation Cancun Resort? A Topless Optional Adults Only Vacation
Temptation Cancun Resort is a topless-optional, all-inclusive, adults-only resort designed for guests 21+. Known as a “playground for grown-ups,” the resort features bold, modern designs by world-renowned designer Karim Rashid, a lively party atmosphere, and an inclusive, judgment-free environment where you can be yourself. It’s located right in the heart of the Cancun hotel zone (about 30 minutes from the airport) with beachfront access.
What to Expect at Temptation Cancun: A Topless-Optional Resort
1. Going Topless at Temptation Cancun is Completely Optional
If you’re nervous about the clothing-optional aspect—don’t be! At Temptation, guests can choose to go topless or stay covered, and no one will judge them. You’ll see a mix of styles, from bikinis and one-pieces to women confidently bearing it all.
2. You Will See (a Lot of) Boobs at Temptation Cancun
Let’s be honest—this is a topless-optional resort. Expect to see plenty of bare chests, especially by the pool. Within my first 20 minutes at Temptation Cancun Resort, I looked across the pool and saw a woman vigorously applying sunscreen to her very ample breasts. It’s all part of the experience; you likely won’t notice anymore after the first day.
3. Temptation Cancun is NOT a Swingers Resort, But…
There’s often confusion about whether Temptation Cancun is a swingers’ resort—it’s not. While you may meet guests in the lifestyle, the resort is not specifically for swingers. Although it’s sexy themed, it’s also not a sex resort. It’s a judgment-free zone where people go to let loose, have fun, and enjoy their vacation on their terms. Think: spring break but for adults!
With that being said, if hooking up with a couple — or other singles — is on your sexual bucket list, booking a stay at Temptation is a good place to start. Even if you’re not looking to “play,” you’ll probably get hit on — or at the very least checked out – by a couple. Everyone is really respectful though, so if you’re not into it, it’s totally OK to politely decline.
4. Everyone is at Temptation to have a good time, on their own terms.
Some people just want to go topless and love the laid-back, friendly vibe. Other guests are there to spice up their relationship and/or test boundaries (even if they’re not actively trying to hook up with anyone, there’s the possibility that it may happen, and sometimes that’s enough.) And of course, there are also people (like me) who just want to chill by the pool and eat as much guacamole as possible, with zero judgment. However you cut it, if you have a freak flag, this is the perfect place to let it flap freely in the wind.
5. There’s a Culture of Consent at Clothing-Optional Resorts
There is a strict “no means no” policy that’s built into the Temptation Cancun resort guidelines that every guest has to sign off on upon check-in. People will ask you before they touch you — even if it’s just a hug.
6. The Crowd is Older.
If you think you’ll be surrounded by 20-somethings, think again. For the most part, the crowd is 30+ The price point is a bit higher than a regular resort, so Temptation Cancun tends to attract a more mature and established crowd. While I met a lot of people in their 30s and early 40s, there are also lots of guests in their 50s, 60s and 70s!
7. There’s a Body-Positive, Confidence-Boosting Atmosphere
Temptation is one of the most body-positive resorts I’ve ever visited. All shapes, sizes, and ages are welcome. If you’ve ever felt self-conscious in a swimsuit, this is the perfect place to embrace your body and feel empowered.
8. Experience the Boobs Cruise – the Ultimate Party Boat
For an unforgettable adventure, sign up for the Boobs Cruise, a wild, adults-only boat party. Hosted by the team behind CancunCare, this all-day excursion includes unlimited drinks, high-energy entertainment, and stops at Isla Mujeres for beach fun. Expect playful games, dancing, and a lively, anything-goes atmosphere. The Boobs Cruise isn’t organized by the resort or included in the all-inclusive experience so you’ll need to sign up for it separately. However, it’s a must-do if you want to take your Temptation experience to the next level!
The Vibe: Daytime & Nighttime Fun at Temptation Cancun Resort
9. Two Distinct Pools with Different Vibes
The Sexy Pool: The party hub with music, contests, and high-energy entertainment. Think foam parties, live DJs, and fun challenges.
The Quiet Pool: A peaceful escape where you can sunbathe, relax, and sip cocktails in tranquility. I loved spending my mornings here just relaxing with a book before the craziness of the afternoon took hold.
10. Non-Stop Entertainment & Themed Parties
Temptation Cancun is famous for its nightly-themed parties, encouraging creative costumes and playful interactions. Some popular themes include:
Lingerie Night
White Party
Glow Night
Superheroes & Villains
Dining & Drinks: Is the Food at Temptation Cancun Good?
11. Seven Restaurants to Choose From
Temptation Cancun has seven different restaurants, offering a variety of cuisines, from Mexican and Italian to seafood and international buffets – and yes, the food is actually quite good. Some highlights include:
Sea Flirt: Great for fresh seafood and breakfast. I love the breakfast enchiladas.
Rain (buffet): Breakfast is probably my favorite meal and the buffet doesn’t disappoint. I enjoyed the mix of American and Mexican dishes, the selection of fresh fruit and daily green juices.
Romanza: High-end Italian cuisine (I loved their risotto and wine selection)
Sutra: a buzzy, Asian-fusion restaurant. Reserve ahead of time if you want a seat at the habachi table (it’s worth it!)
Amores: Mexican-American fusion (don’t miss the endless tacos, ceviche and guacamole!).
SHE: a couples only, erotic-themed fine dining experience that features live, sensual entertainment (translation: there’s a stage with a pole in the middle of the dining area). It’s included in the all inclusive experience so if you’re a couple, it’s worth reserving this restaurant so you can experience it at least once.
12. All-Inclusive, But Bring Cash for Tips
Tipping is included, but the staff provides fantastic service, so you’ll want to show appreciation—budget around USD 20 per day for tips.
Essential Tips for Your Stay at Temptation Cancun
13. Pack Light, But Don’t Forget These Items:
Sunscreen: Sunburnt nipples are not fun.
Costumes: For themed parties.
Earplugs: The nightclub music can go on until 2 AM.
14. What You’ll Find (and Won’t Find) in the Gift Shop
The gift shop at Temptation Resort sells sex toys, lingerie, costumes, condoms, lubricants, Cialis, and Viagra, but you might be out of luck if you’re looking for gum or bobby pins. I learned this the hard way (pun not intended). For what it’s worth, the sexy items are heavily marked up. It’s best to bring your stuff from home.
Luckily, there’s a drugstore across the street where you can stock up on essentials—including deeply discounted over-the-counter skincare products like Retin-A and Kitocell, all without a prescription.
15. Be Prepared for Some Unforgettable Moments at This Topless Optional Resort
Let’s say—you’ll see and hear things you can’t unsee. But that’s part of the fun! From poolside contests to spontaneous dance parties, you never know what’s coming next.
While on the way to dinner, we saw a group of people partying completely nude on their balcony. While sexual activity is prohibited in public spaces, you will see things. Some notable sightings: A very large man in a very tiny man-thong. The beginnings of what looked like a foursome popping off in the pool. An underwater blow-job/hand-job. More men in thongs. To quote my friend Laura, “My eyes will never be the same.”
16. Expect to Make Lifelong Friends at Temptation Cancun Resort
One of the best things about Temptation is the people you meet. Guests often return year after year because of the friendships (and memories) they make. As the bikini tops come off, so do inhibitions (the cocktails also don’t hurt!) If you want to, you can quickly meet new people every day just by hanging out in the sexy pool, where all the action takes place during the day.
17. You’ll Leave Wanting to Return.
Maybe it was the amazing people I met, the daily breakfast enchiladas I consumed or the sheer ridiculousness of it all (where else can you find a poolside “orgasm faking contest” or dance half-naked to Billy Ocean’s Carribean Queen while enjoying the best the swim-up bar has to offer?) but in just a few short days, Temptation managed to turn me from a skeptic into a believer.
Final Verdict: Is Temptation Cancun Resort Worth It?
If you’re looking for a fun, sexy, clothing-optional resort experience with great food, an energetic atmosphere, and a welcoming community, Temptation Cancun Resort is worth visiting. Whether you want to party at the Sexy Pool, relax at the Quiet Pool, or enjoy a topless-optional getaway, this is the place to let loose and be yourself. It’s also a terrific entry-level starting point if you’re curious about clothing-optional or swingers resorts but aren’t quite ready to take the plunge.
Would I go back? Absolutely—I already have five times! I love the freedom and feeling of body acceptance that come with the environment. You will see every different kind of body imaginable, which made me feel more confident in my skin.
And if you’re looking to take the experience to the next level, the Temptation Cruise is an unforgettable adventure at sea. It’s a topless-optional, all-inclusive cruise designed for party lovers. The cruise features themed parties, play areas, and sexy entertainment while visiting some of the best tropical destinations. I went in 2020 and we cruised from Tampa, Florida to Mexico and the Cayman Islands.
Book Your Stay & Experience the Fun
Ready to experience Temptation Cancun for yourself? Book a stay. Pack your best swimwear (or not), embrace the freedom, and get ready for an unforgettable vacation. Got a question? Email me!
I thought it was a high time I wrote an update! First of all, let me start off by thanking everyone for the kind responses to my recent post about dating women. Not only do I feel good about taking this leap in my personal life, I’m also really glad that I took a risk and decided to share it in a really public forum. The responses I’ve received have been really positive and kind. So, thank you.
Although I’m not actively trying to date right now (I’ve kind of put my dating apps on pause mode to focus on some work projects), I do have a few things thoughts to share about my experiences thus far.
If we’re being completely honest, lesbian sex makes me nervous. I know exactly what to do with men but with women…not so much (at least, I’m worried about not knowing certain things). The Lesbian Sex Bible has been a good resource for answering my questions. I don’t have anything to compare it to but I feel like it provides a pretty decent intro to anyone who is curious about Lesbian sex. And it’s a book! And I’m a book person!
I’ve also learned through my lady dating adventures that not everyone uses lube (let alone owns 6+ different kinds at any given time OR owns sex toys (something I have no shortage of). So, basically if my sex life were an equation it would look like this:
Knowledge & Sex Gear > Actual Experience.
I’m basically the bisexual version of Kenny Fisher from Can’t Hardly Wait, complete with Biggie Smalls references but minus the backpack and offensive braids. And fuck it, I’m just going to lean into it.
I lost my virginity for the second time.
I won’t say too much, just that she was lovely and that the experience was really amazing. I honestly couldn’t have asked for a better first time. It didn’t feel weird or “omg, this is what I’ve been waiting for all my life because it’s so much better than being with men!” It just felt normal and good.
I’m still not very good at reading women and whether they’re interested in me.
Unless they’re being super obvious. Ladies, if you’re interested, let your intentions be known. I’m new here.
Separate bathroom trips are advised.
If you’re on a date with an attractive woman you’re hoping to make out with later, do not decide to go to the bathroom at the same time after brunch. You will end up in adjacent stalls. You will hear noises. It will be awkward. The romance will die. Don’t do it.
The clothing scramble is real.
Trying to locate your clothing in the dark is a lot more confusing when you’re the same gender. This summer was the first time I said after sex, “that looks amazing on you, but I’m going to need my $200 bra that I got for free from the internet back.”
Just because you find someone beautiful doesn’t necessarily mean you’ll be attracted to them.
After going on a handful of good dates with some really lovely women, I started to feel like maybe something was wrong with me because these dates were very chaste. Very little touching, no goodnight kiss – even after several dates. This is very different from most of my experiences dating men. Were we just friends? What was going on?! These women felt impossible to read. Looking back, the answer was obvious all along. We just didn’t have any chemistry…and I have the feeling they felt the same way about me. It took meeting someone I actually had chemistry with to realize this.
If there’s one creepy straight dude at an LGBT event, he will find me.
EVERY. DAMN. TIME.
And he’ll lurk like the seasoned lurker he is until Rhonda who does bodybuilding comes over and tells him to hit the road.
As someone who spent over a decade living in a major metropolis, people always ask me, “how do you survive living on the island?” First off, let’s get a few things straight: Victoria isn’t a big city but it’s not super small either. We’ve got bars. We’ve got coffee shops. We’ve got more marijuana dispensaries than is humanly necessary. While the shopping is somewhat limited, you can still mostly get what you need (unless what you need is a Zara store. I mean, come on Victoria). With that said, living on an island comes with limitations and the desire to “get off the island” can get strong. So, when that question comes up, I always answer: “regular trips to Vancouver!”
I’ve spent large chunks of time in Vancouver since I was child and like to think I have a decent handle on the city. After posting a bunch of photos from my recent trip two weeks ago, a friend commented, “I should get you to plan my next weekend in Vancouver! I never know what to do once I’m there.” So, I’ve decided to do just that.
Here’s some of my favourite things to do and eat in Vancouver, as seen through the lens of someone who visits the city regularly.
“You want me to eat at a place called Guu?” is what most people ask. I always tell them, “yes, yes a thousand times yes!” If you haven’t experienced Izakaya (Japanese tapas) before, Guu should be your first stop. Luckily, there are a bunch of locations around the city, each with a slightly different menu. One thing I have to order at every one I visit is their Tuna Takaki. It’s simply the best I’ve ever had.
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2. Shop at a Japanese dollar store.
If you’ve never experienced a Japanese dollar store, you’re in luck because Vancouver has quite a few! I’ve recently fallen in love with the newly opened Miniso chain, which is more upscale and a great source for cosmetics, housewares & sheet masks, but Yokoyaya (International Village) and Daiso (in Richmond) are also worth checking out.
Described as “Melrose Place without the murder” The Burrard Hotel is my go-to for when I’m not staying at my sister’s place. The decor is delightfully retro and the palm tree filled courtyard makes you feel like you’re somewhere much further south. Joe the Intern likes their selection of art by Dina Goldstein that’s scattered throughout the hotel.
Nordstrom used to be a novelty reserved for trips to the States, but now there’s stores in Canada. The downtown Vancouver location is stunning and a great source of inspiration if you’re like me and you love looking at & touching pretty things. The selection is curated to suit an Asian market, which I find generally means more whimsical, adventurous pieces. There’s also a bar. Inside the store. You know, because.
If you’re in Vancouver and you’ve never experienced a Japanese style hotdog, you need to visit Japadog. They have carts throughout downtown as well as a storefront restaurant on Robson street. It’s a Vancouver institution and likely one of the best street meats you’ll ever consume. My favourite is the Kurobuta Terimayo. If I’m going to send my body into a gluten spiral, this is my first stop. (American friends: they now have two locations in LA!)
I think it’s accurate to say that a lot of people here have a love/hate relationship with the Cactus Club. Going to one is a bit like hooking up with an ex that has a “meh” personality but is hot and surprisingly good in bed. The Cactus Club is a chain restaurant that always makes you feel a bit like you’re stepping into an Entourage episode, but you stay because they’re in all the best locations (like overlooking the water in Coal Harbor or English Bay) and the food is actually quite excellent.
Want to experience some of the best food Vancouver has to offer in one afternoon? I seriously recommend booking a Vancouver Foodie Tour. A few summers ago, The Secret Agent and I went on the Guilty Pleasures Gourmet tour and it was amazing. Not only are you going to eat some delicious things, you’ll also get a great overview of the city’s culture.
Head to the Long Table Distillery for a few drinks before you head out for the night. This small tucked away micro-distillery has a cool, industrial-style tasting room for handcrafted spirits and some of the best craft cocktails I’ve tasted. Craving more cocktails? Check out The Keefer Bar in Chinatown. I still haven’t been there yet, but reliable sources say it’s amazing.
9. Swim in the pools at Kitsilano or Second Beach.
Vancouver public pools > your public pools. Vancouver is home to several excellent public pools like Kitsilano (which is saltwater!) and Second Beach in Stanley Park. Both spots have scenic waterfront views that rival any hotel pool in the city.
By now you’ve probably figured out that Vancouver is a hub for amazing Asian food. Is Hon’s the best Chinese food in the city? Probably not. But it’s kind of an institution and it serves damn tasty Cantonese comfort food. Think perfectly fried and just a little bit smoky rice noodles with beef, crispy fresh Gai-Lan with oyster sauce and plates of bbq pork all served by staff in matching T-shirts.
If you’re walking along a street in Vancouver and you don’t pass at least a handful of sushi restaurants before you reach your destination, be concerned. Very, very concerned. There’s just so. much. sushi. here. Shiro is my favourite in the city though.
If you’re looking to go for a higher-end meal and like things meaty, hit up Wildebeest in Gastown. I can be a bit of a scene on the weekends, but I’ve had some of my favourite meals from the past five years at this restaurant. I also recommend Pidgin (Asian/French fusion) which is right around the corner.
If you’re in the mood to be transported somewhere totally different, take a quick skytrain ride to the Aberdeen Centre – a large Asian shopping mall just outside the city in Richmond. You’ll find stores like Hong Kong’s Giordano that aren’t available elsewhere in Canada. Hint: stop at the food court for lunch and/or some delicious Asian desserts.
If you’re like me and love fine dining and are also budget conscious, Dine Out – a yearly event where high-end restaurants offer prix-fixe menus at a reduced cost – is probably going to be your jam. This past winter, a friend and I took advantage & had a wonderful meal at Yew.
Located on a the hip Main St street, Front and Company features a mix of previously worn name brand & designer items and new pieces. It’s also where I go to sell items from my wardrobe – and let’s face it – where I get a huge chunk of my clothes. Most of my profits usually end up going back into the store because I almost always find something gorgeous to buy every time I visit.
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16. Eat some Pupusas on Commercial Drive.
Commercial Drive (“The Drive”) is probably the area of the city that most reminds me of Toronto – in the best way possible. Old school Italian businesses press up against hip bars, vintage shops and Indian take-out. While you’re there, make sure to try some pupusas (delicious El Salvadorean corn patties stuffed with melted cheese, beans & meats) at Rinconcito Salvadoreno.
Cobblestone lined Gastown is now home to a lot of trendy bars, restaurants and shops, but tucked away amongst the hip high-end sneaker shops and furniture stores, you can still find a bargain at one of two Community Thrift & Vintage stores. Not only are the stores super cute and well curated, they’re part of a social enterprise initiative that provides supportive, employment opportunities to women living in the Downtown Eastside of Vancouver.
18. Grab a drink in the “Gayborhood” and wander around the West End & English Bay.
Davie Village (aka the “gaybourhood”) is a vibrant neighborhood located in the West End of downtown and is the heart of the city’s gay community. I love this area – especially in the the summer and around Pride weekend when the night life (and day life) spills out on to the street. Imbibe at one of the many eateries, bars or lounges and then head for a romantic stroll around English Bay (one of the best views in the city).
19. Discover discount designer duds at the consignment stores of South Granville.
Adjacent to some of Vancouver’s wealthiest neighbourhoods lies South Granville. This hood is home to stores like Anthropologie, James Perse, Max Mara and others. It’s also where the rich folks go to dump their wardrobes. My favourite place for scoring deals is Turnabout. Think lots of lightly used high-end to mid-range designer pieces for fair prices. Tip: if $30 Alice and Olivia dresses are your thing, head to the basement. That’s where you can find the clearance racks and deepest discounts.
These are the best tacos I’ve found outside of L.A. There’s now a location on the island so I don’t make a point of eating there when I’m Vancouver anymore, but it’s good. Oh so good. There’s a couple of locations around the city, the newest being in the financial district. Try the chicken tinga taco. It’s mouthwatering.
Last month, I was sliding head first down a pole and landed flat on my face. And you know what? While it was embarrassing and uncomfortable for a moment, I’m fine. I posted on Instagram that it reminded me of something important: in fitness and life, falling on your face happens but it’s not the worst and you get over it.
Since the beginning of the year I’ve been steadily taking pole dance classes. I’ve advanced from the beginner to intermediate classes – but in June, I decided to try an advanced level class. My instructor assured me that I’d be alright in a higher level class, but I was nervous – and for good reason. The advanced pole classes were a lot more challenging (hence, the face-plant) and I went from being one of the better more experienced people in class to one of the worst. My body aches after every class and I’m covered in bruises. Weeks will go by where it feels like I’m making zero progress and everything is just hard, but then something will happen – a new move will come easily or I’ll finally get the hang of one tiny element of a combo and it will renew my faith in the learning process. It’s exhilarating but also deeply uncomfortable, but I keep showing up anyways. Did I mention that all of this learning happens while wearing little more than a bathing suit?!
I’ve been thinking a lot about this process and realized something about myself: I don’t like doing things that I’m not good at. I can be a total ham and a bit of a show-off, so I tend to only gravitate towards activities where I can shine. That’s part of the reason I like my barre classes – with 15 years of ballet training under my belt, I’m confident I won’t embarrass myself and literally fall on my face.
I’ve noticed this pattern outside of my fitness life as well. I gravitate towards hip hop and house music nights partly because I love the music and know how to move to it (thanks all of those insomniac nights I spent in university watching music videos on BET!) and avoid Latin clubs even though I enjoy the music (my salsa moves are “meh”). I write about dating and relationships professionally because I’m good at it even though, sometimes – ok, often – I think about breaking out of the niche I’ve created for myself. And I date men, because men have been approaching me since I was 12 years old (#creepy, but that’s another post altogether), getting their attention is rather easy and I like dating men – well, mostly. With the exception of hip hop & house music (which I’ll never give up), these activities provide me with validation but don’t necessarily satisfy me or help me grow.
I’ve decided to open myself up to dating women, as well. For some people this may be a huge surprise (I’ve spent the past 8 years writing a very hetero blog) – for others who know me in real life, maybe less so. This decision isn’t spur of the moment, but rather years in the making. I’ve been attracted to women since I was in my early 20’s, but never really did anything about it. This is partly because I was always dating men and wasn’t sure how to even go about trying to date women, but it was also because I was scared – not of what my friends and family would say (they’re very openminded and supportive) but rather how people who aren’t close to me would perceive my actions. It’s like I could almost see the comments section (“a dating writer who banged a bunch of dudes and now is dating women…how cliche” or worse, “she’s just doing this for a good story/blog fodder.” )
Plus, I haven’t wanted to define myself with a label. I’m still physically attracted to men, but lately I find myself more emotionally (and in many ways, physically) attracted to women. So, I feel like this is an unanswered question that needs be explored.
So, why am I sharing this now?
Because I’ve learned something over the past month. While I’m extremely confident (to the point of almost being cocky) with men, I’m hopelessly bad at dating women. I’m shy, I’m awkward and I have no idea what I’m doing. It feels a bit like I’ve gone back to square one and I’m back in high school again. But like the pole class that kicks my ass on a weekly basis, I keep showing up anyways – for better or worse – because I know there’s something for me to learn here.
Sharing my thoughts through writing is how I process things. So, while I won’t be providing play by plays of the dates I go on or the people I meet while dating in Victoria, I’ll probably be writing about my general thoughts and experiences throughout this journey.
Spoiler: talking to women on Tinder is a thousand percent better than talking to dudes. You know, in case you ever wondered.
The process was ridiculously simple. After consulting the minimum resolution requirements, I chose a large 40’’x30’’ portrait shaped canvas for Joe’s mug and uploaded my photo (the system lets you play around with different formats to see which works best). It was exactly what I had in mind, so I ordered it.
I love how large, bold art can add an instant pop to an otherwise blank space. When I move, I envision hanging this piece in my breakfast/eating area because I like the idea of looking up from my smoothie every morning and remembering that sunny day wandering around Beverly Hills. However, since I’m currently without said wall space/breakfast nook, I’ve had fun experimenting with the print in various areas of my current home. Behold the proof that a life-size print of a half-naked G.I Joe is surprisingly versatile!
If I’m feeling lazy or don’t have a lot of wall space to hang art, I’m fond of leaning it against walls. I love how my Joe print looks propped up on my dresser.
